Can I be the devil’s advocate? I’m sure this is true in some cases but what if the individual has major depressive disorder and they are struggling with a depressive episode? Sadly I have the condition. I admit I am like that when I’m at my worst. But the episodes dissipate naturally and then I’m good. I mean if they are like this all of the time then you may be right but if this is something that happens sometimes, it may be that. Just offering a different perspective. Depression is a bitch! I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.