I admit I like it when someone notices after I’ve put in the effort but I also realize that is not the case for everyone. In fact when my daughter was in high school, I noticed that her guidance counsellor had lost a lot of weight. I said something and she replied she was ill. So I immediately made sure I never make those comments again. I was embarrassed and apologized and it is no better than asking a woman who may look pregnant if she is pregnant. Great article.