I have issues around forgiveness tbh as I cope in my own way. But I’ll say this. I was the unfavourite and my parents were unfairly hard on me and critical of me while they babied my brother who has turned into a narcissistic asshole (he’s estranged) and believe me I’ve had my resentments. But things have changed.. my mother had a massive heart attack in December 2021 and she has turned a 180 from how she used to be. I can compartmentalize the anger and resentment because I see she is trying and I do appreciate that more than anything. I’m not sure how much longer my parents have but I call them daily and ensure they are ok, and find them resources if they need it. I cannot be a caregiver as they don’t expect it but I can help and happy to help in other ways.