I have to say I thought I wanted to get married and all but now I couldn’t care less. I’m asexual and need my space. Im also so not romantic. I’m conveniently married because finances are what is keeping me in it (and my husband’s abandonment issues would make it very difficult to leave).. but he doesn’t ask much of me so I suppose I can’t complain. I’m sure a lot of it stems from the fact that I’ve been an extreme people pleaser for decades and now I’m over it and I only do what I want.