If he wanted an open marriage I’d be fine with that. But I’m not sure if he would go there. He is very traditional as when he married me he vowed in sickness and health for life. I’m not on the same page but I cannot do anything as our finances are intertwined and I’m not sure if I ever will because it’s not much better out there. If he severely broke a boundary then that would be it though. He knows what they are. Him being in love with someone else isn’t any of those.