It’s sad. I’m neurodivergent as I have ADHD though diagnosed late and likely a nonverbal learning difficulty. That impacted the way I learned and my social skills, one of the reasons I was bullied so much in my youth. My daughter also has ADHD and a nonverbal learning difficulty as she writes a lot of content about it here. My son however endured birth trauma due to loss of oxygen so his ADHD is severe and has autism. He is on the higher functioning end but he had do leave home at 13 as I was cracking under his care. It was mostly his behaviours as he likely has ODD too but it hasn’t been diagnosed.