My husband and I are roommates and coexisting as neither of us are in the financial position to separate but he does give me space to do my thing which is everything to me right now. Based on poor communication over the years, trauma from special needs caregiving where he only took part in some since he was working, problems with both of our families turned into many hidden resentments along the way. We have turned into that sad unhappy married couple staying for convenience but since I am creating my own life despite that, I’m at peace with it. He is a good person but we have become very different now.