One of my ex besties betrayed me in ways that I cannot even talk about and unfortunately I do keep people at arm’s length and it’s because her betrayal opened my eyes to the reality that the majority of people will only use you and see you as a friend with benefits until they no longer need you. But for those who have earned my trust, I let them in. I may be a little cynical but I’m trusting my intuition a lot more when it comes to peoples motives. One of the purest people in my life unexpectedly passed late last year. 😞